Monday, November 9, 2009

On Communication

Sometimes i wonder, what is the best way to talk to the man of your life? Is it keeping quiet even when you want to ask a lot of questions? Or it is waiting for him to talk?

Literature suggests a lot, but then does it apply to all kind of man-specie? Is it true to woman-specie as well? Can reading cope up with all that is going on in a person's brain? Can we really provide answers to all that we are looking for? Who's going to give us the answer?

Anyhow, moderation i think is the answer to all these swirling questions in my mind right now... Moderation and timing as well--- from both parties of course.

One just have to remember, no communication would ever happen if the both ends do not put their heart and mind on the matter.

46 comments:

ren rey said...

Bangas,Rene Rey B.
MWF 11:00-12:00


NO MATTER how your relationship is,as long as their is good communication that is existing in both ends I believe that good relationship will still be.
Good communication is very important in the life of ours because it is the key to success.

john paul said...

John Paul C Buno
MWF(11:00-12:00)


It is nice to feel that all our question in life would be answer but sad to say that not at all times there is always an answer..but dont be discourage just think positive at all times..

michael jhon said...

Michael Jhon Geronimo
MWF(11:00-12:00pm)

Dont be shy express what would your heart says especially important things to know fight your fear be brave and learn how to be strong..

raphy legaspi mwf 11-12 said...

for me talking or communication is one way to resolve a problem, no matter what it is. the best way is to control you temper and express what in your mind properly or in a very good manner so that no one will be hurt.. just tell the truth and good conversation will follow

regiena arnado said...

Good communication could lead us to a better relationship. we know that sometimes we have many questions but the answers are just few,and sometimes they are not fitted to our questions, but somehow we should understand that we cannot get all what we want. WE SHOULD UNDERSTAND bought parties.
We should express if there's something bothering you towards your partner. And ask him in a good way/manner.

polines marie cris mwf11-12 said...

GOOD COMMUNICATION always leads to a great relationship,. communicating to your partner properly would always help your relationship work out.It is the best way to preserve your relationship,and specially whaen things go wrong or when there are things you wanted to know and be cleared out. because how could you find answers when you dont ask. yes reading would help but in this matter you also need to know about your partners personal background or everything about him. and the bewst way of knowing it is to ask him. i think you have the right.

Unknown said...

Martinez, Mary Grace
MWF 2:00-3:00

In every relationship, there should be a special kind of communication, because it is the bond that would connect every individual..Talking about things that needs to be fix is the most effective way to tie a relationship stronger, rather than waiting for each other whom to talk first.

♥aLyAnnA♥ said...

Ortega,A.M.
MWF 5-6

For the person you love,its common to have a good communication in order that your relationship work.Both heart and mind are being use for the sake that you surely love each other.I believe that that good communication will depend to the person on how he/she will handle their relationship,the important is you used your heart and your mind.

Rebosto, Mary Joy S. said...

Rebosto, Mary Joy S.
MWF 11-12PM

In a relationship good communication a the most important, so that you can exchange your thoughts and feelings for each other.
Only time can gives us the answers that we are seeking for.

Norilyn A. Orboc said...

Norilyn A. Orboc
BSOA-2
MWF 11-12

Miscommunication often leads to a failure in relationship thats why being open to each other is really important.

what your mouth uttered should also be what your heart means. We love to communicate so lets do it in the right way.

joy said...

Pacquiao,Joy S.
BS-OA2
MWF 8-9am
In relationship, if their is good communication exist their is possibility that it last in the long run. Good communication is important in relationship to overcome a success .

arlyns said...

Arlyn P. Olasiman
MWF 8-9
As individual, we have a right to question a lot of things that is in our heart and mind so that we can express our feelings, but suddenly all our question has only few answer.But we should keep in mind that communication is one of the important matter in these generation, as we live we keep communicating.And respect of individual is one of the most important values we should establish when we communicate to our fellow men.And Lastly, good communication can resolve of any conflict that we encounter everyday.

Manilyn said...

PaƱa, Manilyn D.
MWF 11-12
communication is important to any relationship that we have. it can help us to know each other more better. for me i believe that good communication can contribute to an existing relationship.

Joelyn Grace said...

Communication plays a vital role in our lives.Through it we may express our views and opinions as well.It may also create a good relationship towards other people.Communication creates a relationship and the relationship it creates depends on how you deal with other people.

Unknown said...

Ocampo, T.H.
MWF 2:00-3:00

communication is the best key in any kind of relationship, it makes things more clear and understandable for both sides, cause action sometimes confuses occasions.

Donnazirey said...

Imboc, Donnazirey B.
MWF 11:00-12:00


Having a good relationship to somebody would help you improve your social life. You cant have a peaceful life if you don't have a good relationship to other people.

aizsang said...

Tigbabao, Aiza M.
MWf 5-6 pm

Communication is exchanging of mans feeligs and minds thought. There will be no better communication between both parties if we will just hang up and shut our mouths. For me the best way of communcating your partner is to speak out what you feel and it is true that women or ladies are the first one who understands the situation if there is any troubles because they are sensitive. Just like me... But, the relationship will work if you are both determined and consider each others reason and feelings.

sara said...

sara oberio
mwf11-12
for me communication is one to become relationship stronger.we need to communicate in order to express our feelings.and there are some books can help us on how we handle a situation.

Rosemarie said...

Gablines,Rosemarie Q.
MWF 11-12:00

For me good communication is a way to have a good relationship.Because without good communication relationship will not be succesful.

_ruthroble_ said...

...i think in all kinds of communication, what is necessary is respect. respect in each others thoughts, opinions and views in life. each party must listen to each other's side. you don't need any book to have a better communication. all you need is just a litle RESPECT.

Anonymous said...

ROSEMARIE ALARCON
MWF 11:00-12:00
FOR me,communication is really important to us.because the way we communicate to other people will reflect to our personality.well,for me also let the guy first to talk so that they can express what they felt.because if the girl will be the first to talk,i think it takes time because girl ;well according to what i've learn in english 15 women can talk 22-25000 word a day while men i think it only 7-8000.i forgot but that is one of difference between women and men.
the heart and the mind must involved in communication so that you will understand what his/her is trying to say. and you can responce directly.

Anonymous said...

Nanta,Aj
MWF 8-9
communication is important,through it we can reach our love ones that is away from us and communication is part of our life.

precious....jaime said...

Luz, Jaime D.
MWF 8-9AM

Communication is very important for us to easily deal and interact with each other, it is not just a way of expressing our feelings and thoughts but also a process of sharing our ideas towards one's goal.

To our relationship to one another, communication take's a very big part for us to simply understand and relate to each other. I do believe that we should train our selves to be a good communicator so that we can eeasily express the things that we wanted to express, and we should also be sensitive to the feelings of one another for us to avoid hurting other/s in any means of our communition.

Cornex said...

Cornex Pillo
MWF 8-9
for me ther are some questions had been answered and some are not being answered,thats why we need communication so that some questions had to be answered.

Anonymous said...

Paner C.
MWF 8:00-9:00

Honestly i wonder the same thing.It makes a confusion in my mind when to talk and when to wait. Sometimes the waiting seems to be rewarding, and sometimes the talking seems to be degrading. Filipino culture taught us to be patient and just wait, American culture taught us to be open, outspoken and straight forward. That leaves me with still lots of questions. What culture to follow? Whose advice should i listen to?
Things are not the same all the time. There should be some circumstances that talking is more preferable to do or waiting is the most appropriate to do. One should be able to know when to do this, for an effective communication that leads to positive output will occur.

j said...

Jerry Boy Hernandez
MWF 11-12



Good communication can be a source of a good love relation.and that can be lead to the success of your life.

Jerry Boy said...

Jerry Boy Hernandez
mwf 11-12

Good communication can lead you to a great relationship,and in the sense of love we fight for it live with it.so it will take you to your goals

colonia said...

...good communication is important bcoz it can make a good communacation to other people,specialy to your love one,and you can gain your goal.

raizelle mae rivera said...

Communicating is very important in a relationship. We can easily understand if we let something out...
When something's wrong,try to be open for they can understand more of your behaviors...

raizelle mae rivera said...

Communicating is very important in a relationship. We can easily understand if we let something out...
When something's wrong,try to be open for they can understand more of your behaviors...

Anonymous said...

Boncales, Jean Marie A.
MWF 2:00-3:00


The relationship of two persons would definitely depend on them.In terms of communication,even when their far away from each other, a phone call or even just a simple text would remind their partner that he/she is still remembered and that their relationship still exist.

Cabita, Jessieca mwf 11-12 said...

good communication is very important because it is one way that every people could understand with each other.

chyreel jean malana said...

For me it is good to have communication with each other because as we all know that without communication we cannot exist in this world.

JANICE FE F. said...

Yes, it good to talk to someone,but sometimes we might feel that you cannot say everything because you cannot trust anybody else. In communication process it will be good when you trust a person and know that he wants to listen.

Torrefiel, Serna C. MWF 11-12 said...

For me, having communication is very important to all human being, because without communication we will not be unite each other.
therefore, maintain having good communication in order to have a good relationship.

anjie said...

Puno, Angeline C.
BSIT-2
MWF 2:00-3:00

Communication will always be one of the important element in maintaining a good and fruitful relationship. Without communication you will not be able to know your partner's true feeling that of course will lead to misunderstandings. If everything is done with a good communication a long lasting relationship and love for each other will never fade.
Even in friendship and other things in life having a good communication is a great deal to me or even to all of us.

ryan: said...

Aguilar, Ryan B.
MWF 2:00-3:00

If communication is maintained in a relationship there is no problem for a relationship not to last. Loving someone will always not be enough you should also learn to listen to your partner in order to know your differences as lovers. Never be afraid to attempt ask questions with you partner if it is for the betterment of the relationship.

Jeshyl Camasura (MWF 11-12) said...

A good communication is a important activity that a relationship must have. A relationship without a GOOD COMMUNICATION will not success at all.

Whatever relationship you are right now, the essence of a GOOD COMMUNICATION must occur to stay longer. And it will lead to a great and successful relationship. haha c:

dulz/// said...

Acosta, Dulce Amor r.
AB English 2
MWF 8-9


Communication exist even if one is not aware of it and that's why misunderstanding comes most intances into the minds.

On the other hand, people read in order to look for an answers to filled in their puzzled minds by the different questions in life's situations.

For me, the best way to talk to the man of your life is when you finally knew your feeling for him and his felling for you. In short, both of you are aware to what you've felt inside.

It's not easy to communicate using emphatic listening(the highest level of listening) but it is where you could recognize that both of you had put your heart and mind on the matter.

Rabina, Panne Ann mwf 11-12 said...

we must communicate to have a good relationship. be a friendly person.

_rOczChUy_ said...

Casing,Roca B.
MWF 5-6pm

For a great relationship, there would be a good communication so that it would last long.It is very important in life because it enable us to express our feeling,emotions, thoughts and the information we want to share.For me it is nice way of communcating your partner is to speak out what you feel and to tell your problems so that to solve earlier before it come to complicated.

kriz said...

Sabacan, Kristel May H.
BSIT-2
MWF 2:00-3:00

for me good communication can lead to good relationship because communication is very important. No matter how far your partner is, if both of you has a good communication there would be no problem at all...
And don't be shy to ask any questions or express any feelings especially important things because expressing or opening once opinion can make any relationship better.

Anonymous said...

Gonzaga, Lailah Mae C.
MWF 2-3
Communication is the most important. It is healthy way to talk to the important people to your life and also It is the way to understand the person.

Anonymous said...

Tabios, L.M.
MWF 2:00-3;00

good communication is a way in building a good relationship between two person. Communication is not the hindrance to communicate. Through communication we can overcome the barrier that lies on different culture.

Ygot,Jocelyn C. said...

Communication,the most important thing for us to understand each other.When it comes to relationship,it is still the important factor why a relationship of a man to a woman is good and getting stronger.Life is short,dont waste your time.Say whatever you need to say coz regrets always comes last!!

Mariz Nova N. Filipino said...

Communication is a mans way of living. we communicate in different ways with gestures or language. The real essence of communication is for understanding, and understanding only exist when there is good communication.
For lovers, this is very essential for the relationship to last. both parties should know and understand the feelings and situation of the other...both should not wait to be asked but try to ask first. we should not hesitate to inquire for the feelings of our partners,that's why it is called partners because you are two in one!

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